Solved my own nvidia opengl driver crashes. There’s two things (at the moment) that caused it:
1- Very long hight speed rails with catenary (solution: build simple rails and then upgrade it)
2- Build something in an area with nearby crops (solution: just delete it with terrain tools)
No TdrDelay (all it does is take longer to return to the desktop), no graphics settings, no resolution, no drivers; just a bug of the game graphics. Everything else has been a loss of time.